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ISSN: 3143-066X

From Control to Connection: How Nonviolent Communication Helped Me Fall in Love with Teaching Again
McPherson, Jill
Published:
June 26, 2025
Issue:
Summer 2025
DOI:
Citation:
McPherson, J. "From Control to Connection: How Nonviolent Communication Helped Me Fall in Love with Teaching Again." Legacy: Transformation in Action, Summer 2025, 1(4), 34-38.
Keywords:
teacher; discipline; classroom management; punitive; blame; authority; nonviolent communication; NVC; Marshall Rosenberg; language; conflict resolution; dignity;
Abstract:
Nonviolent communication gave me the tools to guide students through conflict, shifting the focus from right and wrong to underlying needs. Conflict arises when two individuals are employing strategies to meet their needs in opposing ways. Instead of imposing consequences, I helped students listen to each other with curiosity, seeking to understand what need the other was trying to fulfill. When students felt seen and heard, their defensive strategies dissolved, and collaborative solutions naturally emerged.

