This piece is from the new SEL initiative on The Worthy Educator, xSELeratED, led by Leigh Alley, Heather Lageman and Krista Leh.
This time of year is one of my favorites - counting blessings, coming together with loved ones, baking cookies, laughing and crying at old memories and making new ones, and welcoming in the New Year. It is the perfect opportunity to give the gift of gratitude and connection. Creating gratitude gift boxes is one of my favorite activities to do throughout the year because it is so personal, heart-felt, and meaningful. There is so much power and beauty in words - they can help build us up, lift our spirits, make us feel seen and valued.
In the fast pace and busyness of the world and our lives, we don't always take the time to tell each other how we feel about one another. Every year I rekindle my resolve to live my core value of gratitude, and these boxes have become a tradition at all kinds of gatherings and celebrations. Using words to convey gratitude is one of the greatest gifts we give to others, and it brings joy to both the giver and receiver. Having a treasure box to pick up when I need comfort or a boost has made all the difference in the ups and downs of life. It makes the journey all the more beautiful to know I am on it with amazing people who are a source of light and love … and they see the same in me.
Here are the steps to create gratitude gift boxes:
Buy small foldable cardboard gift boxes (5x5x2) and an assortment of colorful markers.
Assemble the boxes and place a small treat in each box - a sweet treat, quote, ornament - something personal and memorable.
Write each person’s first name on the top of the box.
Place them on a table and play some festive music!
Invite each person to walk around with a colorful marker in hand and stop at each of the gift boxes.
Reflect on each person's name and write a positive word or a phrase that comes to mind when you think of that person, a memory, an expression of gratitude, and/or words of encouragement.
Invite everyone to return to their seats and read their gift. Let them know there is a special treat inside the box for later.
During the holiday season and throughout the year, may we all create the space and grace to connect with those we treasure and share the positive energy and collective brilliance that comes from deep connection and love. One of the greatest presents we can give is our presence - taking the time to tell people how much they mean to us by our words and actions. It is a gift that keeps giving throughout the year - the power of possibility thrives when everyone feels valued and heard, and knows that they matter. Here’s to another year of celebrating life’s beautiful journey!
Heather Lageman is the Director of Grants & Special Projects for the Baltimore County Public Schools in Baltimore, Maryland, and co-founder of xSELeratED.
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